Beneficial lies are larger lies than the insignificant lies with positive results. For example, Johns friend Mark is drunk and is trying to find his keys to drive home. John tells him that he lost his keys, so Mark cant drive home. A beneficial lie helped John to maybe save someones life. The last and the biggest lie known is the harmful lie, the one told with malice aforethought, a lie meant to hurt, create problems or unjustly enrich someone physically, socially or in any other form.
It comes down to the point where we have to ask ourselves, how far are people willing to go to deceive others, to protect anothers feelings, or to embellish a situation? Dr. Bella DePaulo, a professor at the University of Virginia, conducted an experiment, testing how often the average human being lies and why they do it. To find out the results of her experiment, she asked 77 college students and 70 community members to keep a journal keeping track of every lie that they told and why they told it. The study found:
The students lied an average of twice a day, and the community members lied half as often.
Lying was more common in phone calls than in face-to-face chat.
A tenth of the lies were merely exaggerations, while 60 percent were outright deceptions.
More than 70 percent would tell their lies again.
Lies are told every day around the world. While most people tell lies sporadically and when they need to, there are many liars among us who have become addicted or lie out of habit to protect themselves. These people have been psychologically diagnosed as compulsive liars and pathological liars.
A compulsive liar is defined as someone who lies out of habit. When asked questions, they are more comfortable with lying than the truth. Lying becomes an addiction, a reflex, that the person relies on to get their high feeling; their feeling of accomplishment. They are usually insecure, they have the inability to trust others, and they View More »